i can’t believe halloween is less than two weeks away and i haven’t started my costume
a new ask meme: go to my ask and paste the last thing you copied and send it to me without any explanation
ENTJ ~ Fox
ENFP~ Golden Retriever
No, you’re not a bad person for being asexual.
Noone can be a bad person for having or not having a libido.
-The Non-Binary One
(Just to add on)
You are NOT wrong for not wanting sex
You are NOT wrong for wanting sex
You are NOT wrong for wanting to wait
You are NOT wrong for always wanting it
You are NOT wrong for wanting it in certain ways (i.e. fetishes/kinks/fantasies)
You are NOT wrong for wanting it to be more ‘traditional’
You are NOT wrong for who you want to have sex with
You are NOTwrong for who you DON’T want to have sex with
The only things you CAN be wrong for is FORCING someone to have sex with you, forcing them to do something they don’t want to do, forcing them to have sex with someone else, forcing them to watch sexual acts, and so on where you are forcing someone to do something they don’t want to to do.
(I left out some ‘you are not wrongs’, but I think my point has been made)
Did I tell you guys yet bout my trip to the Halloween store because wow just wow
First of all the cultural appropriation game is so fucking strong here like u are literally making a culture your plaything so you can look quirky for a night. I have actually been told that the Day of the Dead skeleton business started out as a costume anyway, but no amount of white people who have lightly studied Mexican culture can deny that this is a very different context. And don’t get me started on this “Pocahottie” business. The only non-sexualized women’s costumes in the entire store were a bit over half of the young girls’ costumes and this “fifties housewife” one
Look. THEY HAD A SEXUALIZED PIKACHU COSTUME BECAUSE APPARENTLY HALLOWEEN JUST BECOMES A SEX SHOW WHEN YOU’RE OLD ENOUGH. APPARENTLY THERE’S NO POINT IN PUTTING ON CLOTHES IF YOU CAN’T APPEAL TO MEN. APPARENTLY WOMEN JUST AREN’T INDEPENDENT PEOPLE AND WE HAVE TO FUCKING REMIND THEM WITH THE HELP OF A
AND I’M NOT SAYING THERE’S ANYTHING WRONG WITH BEING A HOUSEWIFE AS LONG AS IT’S YOUR CHOICE TO BE BUT OH MY GOD CAN WE NOT REINTRODUCE THE VIEW OF HOUSEWIVES AS WOMEN’S PLACE IN SOCIETY WHICH WAS MUCH MORE COMMON THEN UNDER THE GUISE OF SOME QUIRKY, HUMOROUS LITTLE OUTFIT???? CAN WE REALLY JUST NOT????
A GOD DAMN SEXUALIZED PIKACHU WOULD HAVE BEEN FINE IF IT WEREN’T THE ONLY CHOICE FOR A WOMEN’S PIKACHU COSTUME, BECAUSE THEN ANY WOMAN WEARING IT WOULD HAVE MADE THY CHOICE HERSELF BUT NOW WE’RE FORCING SEXUALIZATION ON ANY WOMAN WHO DARES DRESS UP AS PIKACHU
YOU’RE SUPPOSED TO EAT CANDY AND HAVE FUN DURING HALLOWEEN SEASON, NOT CAPITALIZE ON CULTURAL INSENSITIVITY AND FUCKBOYS’ INCESSANT NEED FOR A BONER TO CLASP ONTO AND NEARLY TEAR OFF RUBBING IT OUT
FOR FUCK’S SAKE
I would like to point out that the Pikachu costume is not sexualised??? Just because the skirt is short does not mean it is meant to be “sexy”. Her breasts are covered, her stomach is covered, it even has SLEEVES. And look at the hat, that is the least sexy thing ever (it is cute tho)
You do know you don’t have to buy those costumes right? Make your own out of stuff lying around the house, buy the men’s one, sew your own. Just stop making such a big deal about things that are not an issue.
jfc if men don’t have to make their own costumes in order to not be sexualized then women shouldn’t have to either
I would figure if your buddy Eugene can come up with a legit criticism you would be able to as well but I guess not.
Stephen, as a man do you really think you should be talking over a woman on an issue about women?
Do schools still teach basic supply and demand?
They exist because people fucking buy the shit out of them.
Bitch all you want, but at the end of the day, it’s women buying these “sexy” (and I agree, the pikachu costume is not sexual) costumes. If we want these costumes to go away, everybody has to stop buying them, or at least enough people to put a dent in profits.
I generally have to make my own costumes, I guess I must be oppressed
But I love white knights, they condescendingly try to save women from themselves
"Stop buying these costumes! Stop oppressing yourselves!"
ah you like Kingdom Hearts? i love that game. i love the way they just [clenches fist] heart those kingdoms
if being 100% gay is playing for the other team then i’d like to imagine being pansexual as playing for every team. you just sort of run around between the in and outfields juggling the extra balls and sit a couple innings in the audience eating a hotdog and eventually everyone starts to question whether you even know how to play baseball or not
This is both an accurate depiction of pansexuality and of my knowledge of sports.
I went to an Arab-American comedy night and there was a Muslim guy making a joke about being in high school football.
"I was hit so hard, I saw Jesus. Do you know how hard you have to be hit to see somebody else’s god?"
This is what jokes about religion are supposed to look like.
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